Thursday, September 20, 2012

Evangelism - "Come" instead of "Go"

Most sincere Christians have a nagging fear of evangelism.

We are afraid that we might offend someone or loose a friendship if that friend is hostile to what our faith is. So we don’t go to friends and ask them whether they want to hear about Jesus Christ or Christianity.

What if, instead of you going to your friends, they come to you and ask you about Christianity. Wouldn’t that be easier?

Of course, but the probability of them coming to you are usually low, very low. So, how to increase that probability?

PRAY!

Yes, pray; if you believe in prayer. Ask God to bring those who want to talk about Christianity to you. That way, you can then start a meaningful conversation with them that is vested for Eternity.

OK. So yesterday, after the morning devotion, I prayed that God will send someone to me and that he initiated to talk to me about religion. That way, I can share my faith in Christ to him after talking about his religion. Will God do it? I really have some doubt, because the Bible calls me to “Go, make disciples”; not “Come, make disciples”. Anyway, it is a prayer from the heart and I just forget about it after praying.

During lunch time, after I gave thanks for the food, a colleague asked, “Do you come from a Christian family?” This colleague is much older than me, a very serious, Chinese traditional guy that is best to avoid talking about personal things. So when he unleashed the “religion” question, I was sort of caught off guard. Of all the people, God brings the one that appears to be least interested in Christianity to ask me about Christianity. Not only that, God do more than I can imagine: I prayed that someone would ask me about religion, yet God makes it easier by going to the heart of issue, not religion but Christianity.

So, that is how God can make evangelism easier for you if fear is the reason why you are not sharing Christ with others.

Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us (Eph 3:20)

Agape

Thursday, September 13, 2012

Does your life have Colours?


The company’s products road map is just too colourful. It doesn’t look serious”.

A colleague gave his feedback as I was working on the technology and products development for the company. “Isn’t colour good?” my mind was thinking. As I flashed back on this colleagues power point presentation when he was doing some training for the company a few months back, It was mostly wordy, no pictures and just one or 2 colour. It looked dull to me, but for him, presentation must be serious. Colourful presentations are kids stuff, or so I thought?

I love colour. Colour helps make presentation clearer and easier to read and understand. There are 4 product groups so I used 4 colours to show each group. One glance and you can figure that out. I also use different shapes of box to indicate movements and growth in the products groups. Those products that we have completed development, I add pictures. To me, it doesn’t show the lack of seriousness, but clarity and easy understanding are important in a presentation.

Colour has great effect on our feelings:

"An executive for a paint company received complaints from workers in a blue office that the office was too cold. When the offices were painted a warm peach, the sweaters came off even though the temperature had not changed." - Pantone




Red is a very strong color. It is a noticeable color that is often used on caution and warning signs. It is often associated with stop or "beware". It’s a hot color that evokes a powerful emotion of passion, lust, sex, energy, blood and war. Red is a good color to use for accents that need to take notice over other colors. Red is often used in flags for nations, as it is a symbol of pride and strength. It is also a sporty color that many car manufactures choose to showcase their signature vehicles.



Orange is a combination of Red and Yellow. It is also a bright and warm color. It represents fire, the sun, fun, warmth and tropical images. It is considered a fun light color that has appetizing qualities to it. Orange increases oxygen supply to the brain and stimulates mental activity. It is highly accepted among young people. As a citrus color, orange is associated with healthy food and stimulates appetite. Any design relating to the tropics, something fun, easy going and youthful should incorporate some type of orange into the design. A darker, richer shade of orange can be associated with autumn.



Yellow is the brightest color to the human eye. It represents youth, fun, happiness, sunshine and other light playful feelings. It is a cheerful energetic color. Yellow is often used for children’s toys and clothes. Yellow is often hard to read when placed on a white background so designers must be careful when using yellow, that it isn't’t too difficult to read or notice. Though yellow is a bright cheerful color, as it starts to darken it, however, quickly becomes a dirty and unpleasant color. Yellow can also be associated with being scared and, cowards. The term "yellow belly" is proof of that.



Green is the color of nature and health. It represents growth, nature, money, fertility and safety. Green is a relaxing color that is easy on the eye and has a healing power to it. It is often used to represent anything having to do with health. Many pharmaceutical and nutritional companies use green in their logos and material to advertise safe natural products. Dark green is commonly associated with the military, money, finance, and banking. However it can also be associated with being new or inexperienced as being green or a "green horn". Green is becoming a very popular color in design for web sites.



Blue is a cool calming color that shows creativity and intelligence. It is a popular color among large corporations, hospitals and airlines.  It is a color of loyalty, strength, wisdom and trust. Blue has a calming effect on the psyche. Blue is the color of the sky and the sea and is often used to represent those images. Blue is a color that generally looks good in almost any shade and is a popular color among males. Blue is not a good color when used for food as there are few blue foods found in nature and it suppresses the appetite.



Purple combines the stability of blue and the energy of red. Throughout history purple has been associated with royalty, nobility and prestige. It symbolizes mystery, magic, power and luxury. Purple is often used to portray rich powerful kings, leaders, wizards and magicians. Purple combined with gold can be flashy and portray wealth and extravagance. Light purple and pink is good for a feminine design and is a popular color among teenage girls. Bright purple along with yellow is commonly used in promoting children's products. It gives the appearance of something that is fun and easy to do.



Black is often a color used to portray something evil, depressing, scary or even death in western civilization.  It has negative imagery with it at times such as "black mail" "black list" "black hole" etc. Black is also a very powerful color that also portrays one of class elegance and wealth.  Classy clothing is designed in black from the "power suit" to the "sexy black dress" to formal "black-tie attire". Black combined with other colors can have a very strong statement.  Black is a color that can fit into almost every design to add contrast, type, and make the other colors stand out more. Digital Skratch currently offers black plastic business cards.



White is often associated with being pure, clean, fresh and good. The color of a fresh snowstorm brings up images of a peaceful and pure winter scene. White is a common background for Webster's as it is easy to read black or dark text on it. When used with a design using lots of negative space it gives a very clean look to it. White is also used lots for charities and non-profit organizations to denote something good and positive. Hollywood often portrays their characters in white as being good; the white horse, the cowboy with the white hat, the white wizard etc.  White usually is associated with being pure and almost heavenly, it is associated with hospitals, doctors, and heaven.



After all, God did not create the world in monotone. He makes colour. And the best of his creation was when He put a huge rainbow of 7 colours as a covenant to mankind that never again will He destroy the earth with flood.

Is your life mostly back and white? Or is it filled with colour?

Agape

Monday, September 3, 2012

Words are Touchy!! :(

Speaking Truth in Love – easier said than done!!
Even good intentions may sound boastful.

How do you correct other’s error without sounding obnoxious in a Christian group’s discussion? It probably happened a few times to me, without my knowledge.

Oh, I do remember the last incident though. It happened just a few months back. The leader was reading the synopsis of the discussion and there was a misprint on the meaning of “Joab – Jehovah is my God”. That was when I spoke up. I raised my hand and kindly stated that “actually Joab should be Jehovah is my father”

However, the leader looked into my eyes and stated – “Jehovah is my God is the same as Jehovah is my father.” I looked at the group and everyone seemed to agree with him. That was when I felt that I sound boastful to correct the leader. So, I need to clarify:

“Jo-ab is a short version of Jo = Jehovah and ab = abba which is father in Hebrew. And the Sunday’s preacher also said that Joab means Jehovah is my father”

Back in my mind, I knew that Jo-el = Jehovah is my God; el = elohim (which is God), but I just had to speak less and stop talking since I was appearing to be showing off my Christian Knowledge.

Ok. So, did I do any wrong? My mind flashed to Prov 15:1

A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.

Was my answer gentle? Tick
Was my conscience clear? Tick
Was my motive just to clarify and speak truth? Tick

Then, about 2 weeks ago, the leader’s wife gently told me about the way I speak. Sometime in the midst of a discussion, I get aggressive and my tone sounds offensive. Also, “we don’t need to correct other’s error even if there are errors”.

I thank her for telling me of my blind spot. I will digest that and make changes. Later in the day, I sent her a SMS message to apologize and thank her for her revelations about my faults.

Since that day, Colossians 4:6 is hanging in my hearts and mind all days long:

Let your conversation be always full of GRACE, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone. (Col 4:6)

Agape